emotional polarity technique

WARNING! Two Things That Stop You From Manifesting Your Dream Life (Part 2)

3 Jan 2014

So you know exactly what you want.

You have mapped out your dream life full of all the experiences you still haven’t enjoyed fully. Well you may be surprised to learn there are only two primary things that can stop you from creating your dream life. In my previous blog, I talked about the first thing. If you missed that one, go back and check it out. The second thing is so normal for you that it has become a part of your life. You just haven’t realized how deadly it is to your reaching the fulfillment of your dreams.

Warning! One More Thing That Will Stop You From Manifesting Your Dream Life

What makes you “CRAZY” in your closest relationships:

There are relationships you are in right now that have the power to distract you by making you “crazy”. It may be your mother or your husband or a friend. Think about what really makes you crazy within the closest relationships in your life. By crazy, I mean situations that really get you churning emotionally. They get you churning so much that you stop focusing on your dream. Once your emotional churning starts, you get caught up in self doubt, disappointment, anger and depression. In that moment you give up your dream for these lower frequency feelings. Then you wonder why your dream is not manifesting. To the degree that you let your relationships churn this kind of “crazy” in your life, you will effectively stop the manifestation of your dream life. You have to be aware when you are drifting into “crazy-land” and gently remind yourself to re-focus on your dreams. Keeping your attention on where you are going and how you will feel when you get there is a key component to manifesting your dream life. Do some EPTworks™ to help you determine exactly what your “crazy” is and release it with forgiveness.

I forgive myself for believing I have to go “crazy” when “this” happens in my life.
I forgive myself for giving up on my dream when “this” happens in my life
I forgive myself for letting this situation stop me from focusing on my dream life.
I forgive myself for giving up my dreams because of this situation.
I forgive my family for feeling uncomfortable with my dreams.
I forgive myself for believing I will lose love if I pursue my dreams
I give myself permission to let go of the “crazy” and to keep focusing on my dreams.
Without this pattern, I am free to be aware of the “crazy” as a sign that I am closer than ever to achieving my dreams and this “crazy” can’t stop me any more.

Become aware of this pattern of distraction in your life and choose to release it with forgiveness and acceptance.

Get ready to see your dreams come true!

Get Your Super Healing Machine!

4 Sep 2013

In China there are master healers known as chi gong masters. These are healers who have mastered an ancient art of hands on healing that is well known and respected in in the Asian world. The energy they master and emit from their hands is called “chi”. Way back in the 80’s, someone got the idea to see if the “chi energy” these master healers emitted from their hands could be measured and then copied in a machine that anyone could use. Chi Gong masters were brought into a sound studio one at a time. Microphones were placed over the palms of the healer’s hands while he was instructed to emit “chi energy”. What the researchers found was that the frequency of sound of the “chi energy” was measurable. It was chaotic, bouncing up and down in an unpredictable rhythm but staying within a particular hertz range.

The first Chi Gong machine was also called a “chaos machine”. Chi Gong masters reported their ability to emit “chi energy” more consistently and for longer periods of time was enhanced when they used the machine on themselves during healing sessions.

There has been tons of healing success and documented scientific research using this ingenious subtle energy generator. Over the years, there has been continued improvements in the technology and clinical applications. This machine is now known as the Infratonic 9. You can find detailed research at www.soundvitality.com

Infratonic therapy helps:

Dissolve cellular trauma (emotional and physical)
Relieve pain
Relieve subluxation
Facilitates deep massage
Enhances local circulation
Increases energy level
Dramatically reduce inflammation
Increase production of hyaluronic acid
Speed muscle cell healing

Infratonic placement for specific emotions:

Rage: lower right abdomen
Anger: Liver (front or back)
Grief: lower left abdomen
Betrayal: spleen and pancreas
Survival/fear/trauma: coccyx
Fear: sacrum
Depression: crown of head
Emotional clenching: solar plexus
Anxiety: heart

The Fear Protocol: use 10 minutes over sacrum followed by 20 minutes over heart (2 weeks)

The Anger/Grief Protocol: Apply to abdominal discomfort/tightness for 10 minutes then use 10 minutes over sacrum and then use 10 minutes over heart

The Pelvic Floor Rage Protocol: Apply to lower right abdomen just outside pubic bone for 10 minutes, then sacrum for 10 minutes, then heart for 20 minutes. (2 weeks) relieves chronic prostate infections, cystitis, cramps, bladder infections.

The Mind Congestion Protocol: Apply to solar plexus 10 minutes followed by 10 minutes on sacrum then 20 minutes on heart.

I’d love to hear ways you have used the Infratonic 9 to enhance healing. Please leave your comments.

If you don’t have one of these awesome healing devices, you can buy it from The Cargioli Center with a $100 discount for $625. Just call our office to order. 317-585-9410

5 Reasons You Hold on to Low Self-Esteem

17 Jul 2013

Low self-esteem is an emotional feeling of holding oneself with disregard to the truth of the real power you hold with your unique talents, gifts and skills. Because low self-esteem is out of balance with truth, it has a negative impact on your ability to create great things in your life. If you are a person who struggles with this chronic habit of seeing yourself as less than God has made you to be; it’s time to give up the low self-esteem and see yourself for how great you really are.

1) Shame and fear from previous trauma and abuse:

It builds your story that you somehow caused the abuse or deserved the abuse. The shame comes from having been a part of a trauma or abuse whether you caused it or not. Your fear is that if you shine or stand out, you will be hurt again. Repeat each statement below and take a deep breathe after each one is completed…

I forgive myself for believing it was all my fault and I deserved to be hurt.
I forgive myself for believing there was something I could have done to stop the abuse.
I forgive those who abused me.
I forgive myself for holding on to the abuse and low self-esteem.
I forgive myself for believing if I shine, I will be hurt again.
I forgive myself for believing I had to give up my self love to protect my abuser.
I forgive myself for taking the shame of the abuse even though I didn’t cause it.
I give myself permission to say yes to this trauma, abuse, fear and low self-esteem and I release it to divine love and gratitude.
Without this shame, abuse, fear and low self-esteem, I am free to shine like the sun.

2) Fear of arrogance:

You are afraid that you will be perceived as arrogant or prideful if you love yourself. You believe loving yourself is ungodly.

I forgive myself for believing it is bad to love myself and be honest about my natural talents and gifts.
I forgive myself for believing that loving yourself is ungodly.
I forgive myself for believing I will be perceived as arrogant or prideful if I love myself as God loves me.
I forgive myself for denying who God made me to be as a show of righteousness.
I forgive myself for using low self-esteem as a false humility.
I give God permission to forgive me for denying the light he made me to be.
Without this pattern, I am free to be honest about who I am and what I am really good at. I can share the truth of who I am even if I am shining like the sun.

3) You don’t want to be held responsible:

You are afraid if you believe in yourself and have self-esteem, you will be held responsible for things that go wrong. By holding on to your low self-esteem, you will avoid taking risks and responsibility.

I forgive myself for believing I can’t do anything right.
I forgive myself for believing I’m not capable.
I forgive myself for using low self-esteem as an excuse to avoid taking risks and responsibility.
I forgive myself for believing I must be perfect to take responsibility.
I forgive others for blaming me for things that go wrong.
I forgive others for shaming me for things that go wrong.
I give others permission to forgive me for blaming them for my low self-esteem
I give others permission to forgive me for showing up with less than my real God-given talent.
Without this pattern, I am free to take action to give back and be responsible without feeling afraid I have to be perfect to deserve love.

4) It makes people treat you special:

If you feel bad about yourself, people show compassion and feel sorry for you. They go out of their way to make sure not to say or do the wrong thing around you.

I forgive myself for believing, if I am powerful, people will be harder on me.
I forgive myself for believing, I can control social situations by feeling bad about myself.
I forgive myself for using low self-esteem to control how people treat me special.
I forgive myself for believing it is safer for me to have low self-esteem.
I forgive myself for identifying that low self-esteem is what makes me unique and loved.
I give myself permission to let go of my low self-esteem and to express my true God-given talents to help the world.
Without this pattern, I am free to shine like the sun and people still treat me special.

5) I don’t recognize who I am as a child of God:

You identify with the chronic low self-esteem of your family of origin. To belong you have to be a loser like the rest of your family. You don’t realize that God made you to shine like the sun.

I forgive myself for believing I have to be a loser to belong and be loved.
I forgive myself for believing my family won’t recognize me if I don’t hold low self-esteem.
I forgive myself for believing I will be alone if I don’t hold low self-esteem.
I forgive myself for not recognizing who I am as a child of God.
I forgive myself for rejecting the truth of who God made me to be for the lies of my family.
I forgive my family for making low self-esteem the way to belong and be respected and loved.
I give my family permission to forgive me for letting go of the low self-esteem and loving who God made me to be.
Without this pattern, I am free to recognize who I am was a child of God and I am shining like the sun.

Monk and mystic, Thomas Merton, said it best when he said, “there is no way of telling people that they are all walking around shining like the sun!”

How will your life look without that old low self-esteem? What more will you be able to give to those you love, your community and the world? Answer these questions in the comments. I’d love to see!

If Only

10 Jul 2013

Have you ever had a problem you just couldn’t change? You know what I’m talking about; stuff like that extra twenty pounds you just can’t seem to keep off or credit card debt that never goes away or a relationship that makes you feel devastated every time you think of it.

For me it was chronic financial stress. I was constantly worried and focused on money and having enough just to pay for the basics. I felt a level of anxiety every time I opened my checkbook. I was caught up in the idea that “if only” I could make a certain amount of income, everything in my life would become easier and I then I could be happy.

Making money and financial security became my focus, my idol.
Money became my source for the peace and joy I was seeking.
I realized I made money and financial security my source instead of God

An idol is a construct or focus you pour energy into because you believe it is a source for what you want: identity, power, love, money, peace, relationships, etc.

Idols separate you from direct, divine connection to God.

The only way to heal any problem is from knowing your divine source.

Because I am loved, valued and worthy, I can heal.

Problems that don’t heal: money problems, chronic dieting, chronic relationship distress, depression and chronic physical problems are very likely a form of idolatry. You pour loads of energy and attention into a problem in the hope that solving the problem will make you more worthy, more loved, more acceptable.

All your energy and power is poured into this “problem” that never seems to resolve. It is like a huge tornado that just spins all your excess effort and energy around in a circle, never really moving forward or changing.

It is an idol when it becomes the source to get you what you really want rather than God as the source.

Forgiveness statements:

I forgive myself for idolizing money as my source for all I desire.
I forgive myself for idolizing what I have (family, house, etc) as the source of my happiness and fulfillment.
I forgive myself for idolizing all that I do not have or all that I see others possess as the source of my happiness and fulfillment.
I give myself permission to tear down this idol to money and I am no longer separated from all the love, value and worthiness I ever wanted. It’s already mine.
I forgive myself for using this idolatry of family as a source to heal depression and fear that I will never get what I really want in my relationships.
I give myself permission to tear down this idol, and I am free to stop pouring excess energy into an empty tornado of futile discussion and thoughts.
Without this idol I am no longer separated from God.

Discover the idols in your life with the phrase, “If only. . . .”

I had more money. . . .I would be important and valued
I had a better body and was prettier. . . . . .others would love me
My marriage was perfect. . . .I could love and accept myself

Please post your comments about the idols you have torn down in your life and how it has made your life better.

Who Gets Cancer?

3 Jul 2013

Here is some very compelling research describing the personality traits that increase one’s chances for developing cancer.

If you or someone you love have a high number of these traits, you can decrease your chance for developing cancer with EPTworks™ and emotional healing. By releasing emotional and physical trauma and changing your beliefs, you can increase your assertiveness and ownership of your power to be honest and open about your needs and the practical fulfillment of those needs without the fear or avoidance of conflict.

The most important fact you need to know about cancer: Of all the people who are diagnosed with cancer; the majority survive.

Cancer Personality

The presence of traumas was important in assessing the risk of cancer and the possibility of a poor prognosis. In his study of 250 patients diagnosed with malignancy, LeShan (1956) noted that a childhood trauma was present in 62% of the cancer patients, and in only 10% of the control group. He concluded that an early emotional trauma increased the risk of cancer later in life. Such trauma would supposedly lead to an increase in tension towards one or both parents. Later, LeShan included the presence of a childhood trauma as one of the psychological indicators for predicting cancer development.

Later, LeShan (1977) reconfirmed his initial findings. He studied the life histories of 500 patients. One of the typical patterns identified was childhood trauma. Such trauma included feelings of isolation, neglect, difficult, dangerous or intense interpersonal relationships, parental deprivation and coldness. He noticed that 76% of the cancer patients showed such patterns in their past, and had also recently experienced an emotional loss. Traumatic patterns were relived through the recent emotional loss, which influenced cancer growth.

A 1946 Johns Hopkins University study: “Our results appear to agree with findings that cancer patients tend to deny and repress conflictual impulses and emotions to a higher degree than do other people.”

Certain personality features increase the risk of cancer because they are more likely to generate physiological stress.

Repression, the inability to say “no”, and a lack of awareness of one’s anger make it much more likely that a person will find herself in situations where her emotions are unexpressed, her needs are ignored and her gentleness exploited.
Extremely co-operative
Patient
Passive
Lacking assertiveness
Accepting
Represses negative emotions especially anger while struggling to maintain a strong, happy façade—denial of negative emotions.
The external appearance of a nice or good person
A suppression of reactions that may offend others
Avoidance of conflict
Chronically hopeless and helpless, even though it is not consciously recognized, in the sense that the person basically believes that it is useless to express one’s needs: the needs will not or cannot be met by the environment.

If you know someone who could benefit from this information, please share it.

Take a minute to share how you may have changed these traits in your lifetime and how it has influenced your health and healing.

Knowing this will make you a GENIUS healer!

27 Jun 2013

I was on a road trip and happened to be reading Barbara Brennan’s book Light Emerging. I was reading her chapter on the seven stages of healing. I had an incredible “aha moment” as I realized this information explained why I could have two different patients with the same symptoms and totally different outcomes.

I may have two patients with right leg pain (sciatica). One patient responds to my brilliant care in one treatment having no more pain. I feel like a genius doctor who can fix this problem in anyone but the next patient with this same problem comes in and I can’t get any change or healing to occur. After learning the seven stages of healing I understood why.

Seven Stages of Healing

Denial: “There’s nothing wrong with me.” “It’s normal to have headaches.” “Everyone has problems like this.”
Anger: “Why me?” “This isn’t fair.” “I don’t deserve this problem.” “I hate this pain.” “Someone else is to blame.”
Bargain: “Okay, I’ve been bad and now I need to change so this will stop or go away.” “I will do what the doctor say as long as I’m guaranteed to get rid of this.” “I’ll get surgery if it will make it better.” “I’ll take 100 vitamins and do colonics every day if it will make it better.” “I hate my life so I have to fix it.”
Depression: “It doesn’t matter what I do, nothing gets better.” “I’m stuck with this problem.” “It will never go away.”
Acceptance: “I feel better.” “Things are getting better.” “I still have a way to go but I feel hope.” “I love my life so I know it will change.”
Light Emerging: “Things in my life are changing rapidly.” “Some days I think nothing has changed but then I see a lot of things have changed.” “New people are coming into my life.” “Things in my life are changing rapidly.” “I feel the meaning of let go, let God.”
Creation of New Life: “I am solidly placed in a completely new scenario in my life.” “There are new people and things.” “I am excited at the prospect of learning new ways of being and living my life in this new place.”

So here’s the genius part: The patient who healed was in “Light Emerging”. The patient I couldn’t help heal was in “Depression”. Use muscle testing to determine what stage of healing your client is in with a particular problem. The ones in “Acceptance”, “Light Emerging” and “Creation of New Life” will get better with very little effort on your part.

For the others, in “Denial”, “Anger”, “Bargain” or “Depression”; use EPTworks™ to quickly reveal and release what it holding them back. Voila! You too, can be a genius healer!

Think about a problem you would like to heal and determine what stage of healing you are in with that problem. Your decision to heal will take you on a road trip to “Creation of New Life”. Enjoy the journey!

Much gratitude to Barbara Brennan for her great contribution to this work!

I would love to hear how you have used the stages of healing to increase the focus and speed of healing in your life or in helping others. Please leave a comment below.

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