Emotional Healing

Emotional Healing Training

15 Mar 2014

Emotional Polarity Technique is the practical, efficient, time-saving technique that you have been waiting for. Take EPT Training and add new dimension to your life and practice.

EPT is a natural holistic healing method that addresses the emotional aspect of health and disease. EPT can result in the elimination of chronic pain by removing the negative emotional pattern that precipitates the problem. Using magnets, EPT can facilitate the transformation of negative emotional feelings into positive emotional feelings.EPT is a system that effectively defuses the pathological physiology that accompanies negative emotional patterns. You can learn and use EPT immediately. It will enhance all your current techniques and you will see a quantum leap in your results and efficiency! An R.N., working in a facility-counseling children, used EPT the week following the seminar with an eleven-year-old boy who had a history of uncontrollable seizures. EPT allowed her to identify a key forgiveness issue. He forgave a second grade teacher who told him his brain was out of step with his body. She incorporated a positive affirming belief and was excited to report that the boy has been without seizures ever since!

“Wouldn’t it be incredible to have a tool that guarantees that a client will feel better with their first appointment?”
– Dr. Annette Cargioli

You can be happy!

6 Feb 2014

Do you ever feel like…

Nothing I do or don’t do will make me happy. I’m destined to be sad FOREVER. I think something will make me happy, but nothing will. Therefore, I will never be happy…

Maybe you’re not happy with your job, a situation, just life in general… We all have those moments when we feel like we will never be happy again. Think of a child (or adult) throwing a tantrum, at that moment, they genuinely believe that they may never ever be happy again… Maybe it’s because they didn’t get their way, or maybe because of a significant trauma. But genuine joy is possible. [Read more…] about You can be happy!

3 Statements that Heal Everything (by Paige Cargioli)

24 Jan 2014

That’s right, there are only three statements, well, forms of statements that can heal everything. They are 1) I forgive myself (for believing)... 2) I forgive others (whoever that person(s) is in your life that you need to forgive)… and 3) I give others permission to forgive me (when I hurt them the same way I was/am/hurt)… Combining these statements together creates holistic, past, present, and future healing.

Present: I forgive myself…

This might be kind of strange to start with, but forgiving yourself should be the easiest thing you can do (you’re the only person involved here!). However, I say “should” because, well, it’s not always so easy. Forgiving yourself is often the last part of healing anyone ever thinks of, especially if this forgiveness also involves someone else. One of the way EPTworks frames this forgiveness statement is usually with a qualifier, for example, “I forgive myself for believing…”

For example, when something bad happens to me, or I make a mistake, it may cause me to believe something negative about myself that reinforces repetition of the issue. If I believe I am a victim, I may continue to be victimized. If I believe I am unloveable, I will not feel love. If I believe I have no control, I may constantly be looking for places in my life where I can control. Until I forgive myself for believing these negative things about myself, how can I heal from them? How can I get over them? Even if someone else supported the cause of these negative belief patterns, I still have the power to forgive and let go of how I treat myself regardless of how someone else treats me.

Forgiveness of self empowers and helps survivors completely heal. There is often opposition to forgiveness in abusive situations, that is to say, if I forgive, I will continue to be hurt or victimized. Forgiving oneself protects against this, because as soon as I let go of and forgive the belief that I deserve a certain situation, or that it’s my fault, or that I can’t change, I am able to walk away and potentially break the cycle. And all this can happen before even considering the next statement!

Think about what you might believe to keep you in negative patterns, pain, and illness, and forgive yourself for believing it.

Past: I forgive others…

This is what most people think of when they think of forgiveness.

I forgive you.

Well, we know that’s not true based on the first statement. Forgiveness is much more multifaceted, but as annoying as forgiving another person can be, it is also necessary to do in order to heal everything. No man is an island. No one lives in a vacuum. So, there is always someone else to blame for our problems, issues, pain, etc etc etc. Even if I, all myself self, make a mistake, there is so much at work you may not even be aware of that might have caused you to make that “mistake.”

Take, for example, whatever is generationally or genetically (?) at work in a family, and then there is a teenage pregnancy. Usually, the situation is not an isolated event. More often than not, the mother also had a teenage pregnancy, maybe an aunt or a grandmother or a sister… There is always someone else. Same goes for lots of familial patterns. One would think that we would learn from our history… But alas.

In this example, the girl who got pregnant unexpectedly as a teenager may have, first, just believed, based on her familial/generational examples and patterns that this is just what girls do. Then, she may need for forgive whoever (mom, grandma, aunt) for teaching her (not explicitly) to get pregnant as a teenager, and she may need to forgive whoever else was involved at the time of pregnancy, maybe even (generationally) the men that would have been involved.

The list of people and feelings that need to be forgiven can go on and on. EPTworks helps to pin-point the exact time period and people involved that established a negative pattern and forgive the specific issues related to the pattern in order to move on and heal completely.

Other patterns that might exist? Cancer, suicide, abuse, divorce, or addiction… What and who do you have in your life that you know you need to forgive for establishing negative belief patterns in your life?

Future: I give others permission to forgive me…

This is probably the strangest and least intuitive statement, but it really rounds out the process. This statement is tough, because it is essentially saying, “I give other permission to forgive me, when I do the exact same thing to them!”

I hate to admit this to myself, but I do the exact same things to others that I hate. If I believe I am alone or unloveable, then maybe I will push people away, or be a regular downer (making no one want to be around me). I will do things to others that potentially could make them feel unloved or alone. In my negative selfish pattern, I end up doing to others what someone else did to me, and them blame them?! What is wrong with me?

Like forgiving myself is present oriented, forgiving other is past oriented, giving others permission to forgive me is future oriented. I am anticipating that I will make a mistake, and allowing the other person(s) to forgive me for all the times I do (from the time of the originating event until the end of time).

Where in your life might you be doing the exact same thing to someone else that you dislike or do to yourself to keep negative patterns?

There you have it…

Those are three statements that heal everything. Forgiveness crossing time and space, life and death, and all that jazz. Practicing well-rounded forgiveness is exactly what EPTworks is all about. Not just to heal the past, but to launch you into a happier future.

-By Paige Cargioli

(@paigecargioli, asceticpaige.wordpress.com, BetterLifeHealing.com)

10 Natural Cures For Sick Kids

16 Oct 2013

Chronic coughs, runny noses, sore throats, headaches, tummy aches–with five kids, I’ve seen it all. My youngest is now a senior in high school and I am proud to say, we never had to treat our sick kids with antibiotics or medical intervention. We have developed a good reputation in our community, providing natural health care to children. While vitamin C and plenty of water are always recommended for infections, I’m giving you 10 more amazing natural cures you can use to help your sick kids.

1) Apple cider vinegar

This is an amazing cure for strep throat, one of the most common kid sicknesses. D.C. Jarvis, M.D. documented his research using apple cider vinegar to heal strep throat and other health problems in his book Folk Medicine: a New England Almanac of natural health care from a noted Vermont country doctor. The minute your child starts complaining of a sore throat, have him drink 1 teaspoon of apple cider vinegar in a glass of water every couple of hours. If he can gargle and swallow, it will minimize the pain of the sore throat. Dr. Jarvis claimed to be able to change a positive strep culture to negative in 24 hours or less using apple cider vinegar.

2) Colloidal silver

You can pick this up at any health food store. It is a tasteless liquid that can be used to prevent sickness as well as helping the body heal from sickness. It is safe for babies and small children. It can be used directly in the ear with a drop of olive oil for ear infections. It is very effective in resolving the pain, infection and inflammation of pink eye or any eye problem. It is safe and soothing to drop into the eye to aid with infections. Skin infections also respond very well with colloidal silver.

3) Eliminate dairy

This won’t cost you anything. Just in case you didn’t know, kids with chronic ear/nose/throat infections are usually sensitive to dairy. I’ve seen so many chronically sick kids get well and stay well by simply eliminating all dairy. You can substitute milk these days with almond milk, coconut milk, or rice milk.

4) Probiotics

These are the good little bacterial army of scavengers that love to eat all the “dead stuff” your immune system went after. That dead stuff becomes excess mucous for your body to unload. You can find probiotics at any store that carries supplements; even your local Walgreens. This supplement will clean up the “mess” of getting over an infection and help the colon stay healthy, too.

5) Gently rub temples for 30-60 seconds

A fever is the bodies way of killing the bacterial or viral invaders. A fever is your child’s immune system doing it’s job to protect your child. Dr. Robert Mendelsohn, acclaimed pediatrician and author gives solid advice on when it is advisable to lower a child’s fever. We learned that you can give your child a 15-20 minute break from a fever by gently rubbing her temples for 30-60 seconds. This gives the child a short break from the fever without interfering with her immune systems natural defense mechanism.

6) Peppermint oil

With colds and fever often come headaches. Use peppermint oil on the temples, forehead, under the nose and a little on the tongue to alleviate the pain of headaches. (be careful to avoid getting it in the eyes as it will sting) You can also rub peppermint oil on the tummy for tummy aches.

7) Fenugreek tea

Fenugreek tea is an amazing helper when it comes to excess mucous from sinus, throat and lung infections. You can buy it in tincture form or tea bag form. Drink three cups of fenugreek tea per day to relieve the sinus and lymphatic congestion.

8) Kali Sulph 6x

This is a micro-nutrient known as a cell salt. Kali sulph is fantastic for eliminating that last bit of croupie cough your child carries around. It is also good to give for the basic common cold. Take 3-6 three times per day until symptoms are gone. These are tiny supplements that are dissolved under the tongue.

9) Kali Phos 6x

Another cell salt, Kali phos is an ancient remedy for those who feel as though they are “falling apart”. Children who are fretful with chronic headaches or stomach aches can usually benefit from Kali Phos. It provides micro nutrition to the nervous system to support it in helping the child feel stronger and more able to cope with the stress of life. A child can take 6 three times a day and as needed for nervousness that causes anxiety and stomach upset.

10) Get regular spinal adjustments

Chiropractic care is about maintaining your structure to positively influence your function. It’s not just about back pain, but an overall holistic approach to body health. When your body structure is aligned, your body function is improved. Chronically sick kids who get adjusted regularly, always get well faster and stay well longer.

If you know some dynamite natural health cures for kids; share them below in the comments. I’d love to hear from you!

Warning New Students Moving at Light Speed!!

2 Oct 2013

By Sherry Hamilton

I want new students of EPTworks™ to realize that when first learning the bulk of information and new skills needed to practice, you may feel like you are going slow, but you really are going at light-speed and you WILL do amazing things even as a beginner. I remember leaving my first class almost 20 years ago, and feeling very slow at using the techniques– especially compared with Dr. Annette, the inventor of EPTworks™. Even though she is my sister, I craved her encouragement that I could “do” EPTworks™ and help others in the way she had helped me. She was confident that as a new practitioner, I could accomplish amazing outcomes.

The week after my first class I had my first paying client. She was a 16 year old girl referred by a chiropractor. The girl sat in front of me and told me her problem, “I sit down at the dinner table. Then I have to go throw up before I can actually eat. This has been going on daily for about two years.” She explained how the doctors had been unable to help her control this. She had been scoped from both ends, and she was feeling very upset. She had visible scars on her face and arms. She had been thrown threw a car windshield two years before and had been through several surgeries as well as still having glass coming out of some of her scars. This car wreck happened the day before she was going to have an interview at a modeling agency. The wreck changed the course of her life and the scars from the wreck changed any hope for her to be a model.

I had my EPTworks™ manual opened and my flow charts laying on the table beside her as I wrote down her story. I began to methodically go through the steps one by one that I had learned a week earlier in class: “Find It. Fix It. Forgive It.” I remember working for one hour and the idea that she believed her whole life had been ruined because of this car wreck. I had her repeat, “I forgive myself for believing my whole life is ruined because of this wreck and because I missed out on being a model.” I kept going with EPTworks™. Finding imbalance in her emotional body, placing the magnets as directed by the body, directing her to breathe, and then stating specific forgiveness. She came back one more time a week later. She said that she had only thrown up one time in that week! This was a huge improvement from her previous experience, and she was much happier and more relaxed.

It has been almost 20 years since I took my first class to learn how to “do” EPTworks™ for myself and for my children. I attained that goal. Beyond that I have hundreds to thousands of amazing stories where I got to help others in their healing using my skills with EPTworks™. “Thank-you” to my sister for teaching and encouraging me to keep on practicing and helping others!! It is an amazing journey. And now I get to help others learn how to “do” EPTworks™!! Thanks again Dr. Annette!

EPTworks™ BusinessWorks is a three-day training that helps you with these three steps to uncover the gold that exists in you and your business right now.

Sign up to attend and you will get hands on attention to expand your business.
Individual sessions with Dr. Annette Cargioli allows you to break through the invisible barriers that are holding you back
Individual sessions with Penny Langely allow you to dream a bigger dream and actually see the reality of your dreams coming true before you leave this three days.
This is an exclusive event. We limit our training to no more than 10 people.
If you are ready and looking for ways to love your business more and take your success to the next level; EPTworks™ BusinessWorks is for you!

Three Easy Steps to Super-Grow Your Business

25 Sep 2013

1) Love your business like it is your best friend.

This is the number one key to having continual growth in your business. Think about how you feel about your business when it is disappointing you. Use forgiveness to help you let go of the anger, frustration, depression, low self esteem, fear or sadness that comes up for you when your business isn’t meeting your expectations. Stop giving up on loving your business when it is struggling. Decide to love and believe in your business no matter how it may be performing for you. Love it because it is a gift from God for your life. Your business has it’s own unique energy signature that is influenced by the love you give it as well as the love others give it. The more love that is poured into that energy signature, the more it grows in response to give back to you. Just like you would let your best friend offer return love to you, you must allow your business to function this way too. You must allow gifts of love and money to flow back to you from your business otherwise you will leave your business with the energy of a debt it owes you for all the love you have given. That debt you create in your business by refusing to receive back (example: paying yourself) takes up space where new business is blocked from entering in. When you do receive back from your business, you open space where more people can enter in to expand the love for you and your business. Once you really get this down, loving your business unconditionally, expansion in the form of love, money and new people occurs automatically.

2) You must feel happy and safe to invite money into your life.

This sounds crazy for most people. Of course I feel safe with money and I would invite it in. People who have the most difficult time manifesting money in their lives usually have one of three problems:

They push money away
They run from money
They don’t feel self love and value.

Your earliest memories around money go with feelings. If mom and dad were fighting about money, you could believe that money is “the bad guy” that upset my family or made life harder for you. For every time you heard someone say, “I can’t afford it.”, you saw money as “the bad guy” that doesn’t allow me to be happy or do what I want. These strong negative emotions you hold with money memories drive your action or behavior with money. If you have mastered loving your business and it is flowing naturally with money–you may feel an anxiety or fear because you are running away from money. Even though you invite money in; when it shows up, the negative feelings force your action to push it away. People who have very little self love or sense of value in themselves tend to only allow money into their lives that belongs to others. Check what stage of healing you are in with money. Give money permission to forgive you for running away or pushing it away. Admit to money, it’s not “the bad guy”. Forgive yourself for believing money is the “bad guy”.

Invite it into your life to love and appreciate the gifts that it can give you and others.

3) You must commit 100% to your business.

Besides loving your business, you must be ready to fully commit to what is necessary to support your business in all that it may need from you. This includes time, money, training and just doing your very best. When you can’t figure it out–what needs to be done now–be willing to get help. Consult with an expert. Take risks to grow in what you don’t know if it means making your business better for you, your family and the world.

EPTworks™ BusinessWorks is a three-day training that helps you with these three steps to uncover the gold that exists in you and your business right now.

Sign up to attend and you will get hands on attention to expand your business.
Individual sessions with Dr. Annette Cargioli allows you to break through the invisible barriers that are holding you back
Individual sessions with Penny Langely allow you to dream a bigger dream and actually see the reality of your dreams coming true before you leave this three days.
This is an exclusive event. We limit our training to no more than 10 people.
If you are ready and looking for ways to love your business more and take your success to the next level; EPTworks™ BusinessWorks is for you!

Next one is in Destin, Florida November 2-4, 2013. Register here to reserve your space!

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