Forgiveness Tip 3

Some people can’t believe they can really heal and move past certain events such as divorce, child abuse, unexpected death, disease, rape, etc. In these cases use:

I forgive myself for believing there are some events you just never get over.
I forgive myself for holding on to a rape that doesn’t exist anymore.
I forgive myself for believing letting go of this trauma will give someone permission to hurt me again.
I forgive myself for believing I just can’t forgive that person.